How to Reduce the Stress of Moving into Independent Living

Sorting through a lifetime of beloved keepsakes, photographs, and possessions. Deciding what furniture and décor items to keep and what to donate to charity. Carefully wrapping and packing the belongings that are coming with you. And finally, cleaning the home to be put on the market to sell. All the things you have to do to prepare for a move can be stressful at any age, but transitioning yourself or a loved one into a new place when you’re an older adult can be positively overwhelming.

The good news is there are a lot of practical things you can do to reduce the stress of moving into independent living.

1. Choose the Right Independent Living Community – Being comfortable with the community you’re going to join can make the move something you or your loved one can truly be excited about and looking forward to. It may mean selecting a community closer to family. One that has convenient life-enhancing amenities like walking trails, a workout room, or a library. A bustling place that offers a variety of engaging activities like concerts, book clubs, or crafting classes. Plus, one that is set up to provide easy opportunities and inviting spaces to socialize with old friends and new neighbors. Many independent living communities feature amenities like cafes, auditoriums, or gardens where residents can gather, relax, and enjoy each other’s company.


2. Lighten Your Load – After living in the same home for 30 years or more, accumulating possessions from family life and various experiences, it's common for our houses to become cluttered. Some items hold sentimental value, while others are simply excess. Deciding to move means confronting this clutter, but the rewards of downsizing extend beyond just physical space—it can lead to emotional benefits from simplifying life.
   


3. Plan Ahead – Make sure to take plenty of time to transition. Pace preparations for moving so they take place over several weeks or a couple of months if you can. Not feeling rushed can greatly reduce the level of anxiety that comes with making any life change. Consider selling unwanted items through an estate sale company or consignment shops. Utilize junk removal companies for recycling, donations, and trash removal. Leisurely going through belongings with friends and loved ones, and passing on family treasures to the next generation, can be an uplifting experience. Make it an event that will create memories and connections you can treasure.
   


4. This is a Team Sport – Whether it’s enlisting family and friends to help you get organized or hiring a service to do things like cart away junk, set up an estate sale or do a final cleaning, don’t be shy about seeking a helping hand. Knowing you don’t have to do everything yourself can help keep you from feeling overwhelmed.
   


5. Now for the Move Itself – Prepare a Moving Binder to centralize all documents and contacts for a streamlined move. Collect packing supplies and begin organizing belongings, prioritizing non-essentials and establishing a "Do Not Pack" zone for daily necessities. Label boxes with numbers and contents, using color-coded tape for room identification. Keep high-value items documented separately and secure important documents, medications, and valuables with you during the move for peace of mind.
   

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6. Start Becoming Part of the Community – If you or your loved one have family or friends already living at your independent living community, make a point to visit them. Chances are, they’ll introduce you around to your new neighbors and show you the ropes. If you’re the first to join the community, you might be able to attend an event like a concert, lecture, or movie night a bit before the move. Making a friend or two in advance can help you feel comfortable in your new environment in no time at all.
   


7. Create a Space That Feels Like Home on Day One – If at all possible, set up the new apartment well in advance of the actual move-in-day. Have all of the furniture delivered and in place. Hang the artwork and family photographs. Set out your favorite coffee cups in the kitchen. Have the bed freshly made. The goal is to do all you can to make sure everything is ready and inviting the first night. While it’s true that making the most of a smaller space can be a decorating challenge, there are easy ways to create a beautiful and functional downsized living environment. The most important thing to remember is: if the new apartment looks like home, it will feel like home. Being surrounded by your favorite and familiar things is the best stress reducer of all.
   


8. Look Forward to a More Relaxing Future – Knowing you’ll never have to mow the lawn, shovel snow, fret about doing home repairs, or clean a big house ever again can be very liberating. Embracing the freedom of having time to do more of the things you love and less of the drudgery of maintaining a home on your own is something you or your senior can truly look forward to.
   

Change is always challenging. But with a little planning and preparation, you can significantly reduce the stress of moving to independent living. A new adventure, new friends, and an exciting new lifestyle awaits in a supportive community that will welcome you in with open arms.

MorningStar Senior Living — Independent Living Community

Love the sound of built-in companionship, predictable budgeting and the security that comes from living in an independent living community? Our job is to take care of the day-to-day details of home maintenance inside and out, giving you more time to do the things you love. Whether it’s fulfilling a calling, finding a new opportunity through volunteerism, or playing and relaxing, contact us to schedule a tour of a community near you.